We know, as parents, you certainly do not want anything bad for your daughter’s future. However, call it extra-protectionism, obsession or societal pressure, often mum-dad go wrong in picking the right groom for their daughter.
No, not that they pick an incompetent son-in-law or tie her knot with a bad husband. The biggest mistake they make is not undertaking the daughter’s opinion-what does she wants, what kind of family life does she wants, does she like ‘this guy’, or is there something specific that she’s looking for in the in-laws. These are important considerations, which, sadly, the majority of Indian parents fall short to factor. And, again, while they do not want anything bad for their daughters, they end up doing just that.
Are you one of these parents?
It’s important, if yes, to give up the traditional (and orthodox) approach when selecting the other-half for your daughter. Today, the “right way” of finding a perfect groom for her isn’t about reinforcing your ideas and preferences BUT rather putting forth her likes, dislikes, and opinions. This isn’t to say what you think matters any less today. It simply means that you must treat finding your daughter a good husband as a collective process that everyone must agree mutually, including the bride whose opinions never really mattered back in the days.
The First Step
And a simple way to begin with in this direction is registering your daughter on a reputed free online matrimony website (creating her profile) and then matching that profile with the best ones – all done together. Select profiles of guys whose age, profession, and other attributes match yours and your daughter’s likings, connect to them personally and then take about the talks if everything fits your expectations. If not, move on to the other profiles. Additionally, also consider what kind of wedding your daughter wants, what arrangements she’s looking forward to and, above all, how she plans to start the new phase of her life.
In short, in this day and age, the “right way” to find a perfect groom for your daughter has changed. And it’s important that your approach changes too. Start by registering her on the largest online wedding website today.